Backdoor action can be intimidating. There's still so much stigma attached to non-vaginal intercourse that a lot of misinformation circulates about the do's and don'ts. Thankfully, WoodRocket's latest video offers porn star anal sex tips straight from the mouths of the ass play experts, so you don't have to wonder if you're doing it right ever again.
As Leya Falcon affirms, the two most important things to have when you're having anal sex are "communication and consent." Nobody wants a wayward penis jabbing at their butthole during the middle of sex unannounced (remember the infamous Mindy Project episode?), because that's certainly no way to have your first foray into butt sex and it is NOT OK.
After consent is on lock, it's imperative to keep the communications flowing as your juices follow suit. Unless you're sexing a psychic, there's no way for the person on the giving end of anal to know what the person on the receiving end is feeling unless there's a healthy dialogue. Once that's settled, you can go for broke and embark on any kind of anal adventure that your little heart (or starfish) desires.
Here are seven porn star approved tips for getting the most out of your anal sex experience:
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Incorporate Anal Play Into Masturbation
If you're new to the anal game, Charlotte Sartre suggests adding a butt toy to your masturbation game "so you associate anal stimulation with pleasure." Start small, and you can work your way up if you so desire. Just be sure not to forget the lube!
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Practice Makes Perfect
Amarna Miller reveals that in her experience anal sex is something you start enjoying after you have tried it a couple of times. It can be "weird feeling" in the beginning, she admits, but make sure to "take your time" and "don't force yourself to like everything from the very first moment."
3
Try A Butt Plug Training Kit
Lily Lane uses a butt plug training kit with increasingly larger sizes leading up to the day she shoots a scene. But for everyday folks, this method can help prep you for fun, too.
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Communicate With Your Partner
Communicate, communicate, communicate, says Mick Blue.
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Eat A Fiber Rich Diet
Abella Danger always eats a fiber-rich diet to help clean out her pipes before engaging in an anal scene, and this dietary approach will help the anal newbie, too.
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Use An Enema
Leya Falcon is a fan of enemas for a fully clean butt, but also notes that you shouldn't worry too much about a little mess when you're having fun. Bodily fluids are normal and natural, after all.
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Relax And Have Fun!
Make sure to relax mentally and physically before you have anal sex. If you're too anxious, your body is going to tense up and won't be as ready to receive pleasure.
Whatever happens during your initial anal explorations, just remember: it's supposed to be fun. If you're ever not feeling it, take a break, take a step back, and reassess.
