"To ensure that a relationship lasts beyond the one year anniversary, a couple must date," Licensed Marriage & Family therapist, Dr. Lori Whatley, tells Bustle. Set aside one night a week to have time for just the two of you. If dinners out start to get stale, shake it up. Try adding on new activities that you both want to try. Whatever you do, don't stop dating each other no matter what.

A lot of relationship problems can be prevented or solved through open communication. "When couples dont communicate, their connection becomes compromised," Dr. Whatley says. So whenever a misunderstanding arises, make it a habit to work it out right away. Don't sweep it under the rug, she says, as that can lead to resentment. There are healthy ways to communicate during fights, so be sure to learn them.

When the honeymoon period starts to wane, you'll start seeing your partner for who they truly are. Sometimes you'll like their little quirks and sometimes it will irritate you. Regardless of what it is, have a short memory, Dr. Whatley says. After your first anniversary, it's important to learn how to let things go. That also includes the past. "Drudging the past up with each new offense is harmful to the wellbeing of the partnership," she says. These things are blockages to connection, so don't hold onto them.

Laughter has a way of bonding people together. So use laughter to deepen your connection with each other. Find little ways to make each other smile. As Dr. Whatley says, "It is truly the best medicine and can increase the goodwill in your relationship profoundly."

"It's important to shake up your mundane work weeks (or months) with something extraordinary," Andrea Amour, Founder at UpDate Coaching, tells Bustle. For instance, you can try planning an exciting trip together. It will not only give you something to look forward to, but it will give you a chance to help refresh your relationship. "Don't lose momentum," she says. "Many people get complacent in their relationships, which makes the fire between them 'die out.' Although you're more comfortable with each other, keep acting like youthful daters and get sexy."

One of the biggest mistakes couples make after the first anniversary is take their partner and relationship for granted. They might reach this point of comfort that they forget to make their partner feel special, appreciated and wanted. "Many couples fall into a routine and with that, the magic begins to evaporate," relationship counselor Kac Young PhD, ND, DCH, tells Bustle. "But with a little bit of creative thought, the relationship can remain vibrant, exciting and full of fun, just like the beginning."

If you want your relationship to last, create some time to set big goals together. "It's been a year, so talk big picture," Amour says. Do you want to move in together eventually? Is marriage on the cards? What about kids? You want to make sure you're both "roughly" on the same wavelength, she says. Also, be sure to aim for the "big picture." According to Amour, avoid any discussions of a timeline as that will just end in disappointment if that timeline passes and nothing happens.

Making it to one year is awesome. But if you want your relationship to last, you need to put in the work. Maybe even more so than when you first got together. If you make it a point to do these things after your first anniversary, you will have many more anniversaries to come.