Just because you cannot spend as much for dinner as your friends can, they can't — or shouldn't — get mad if they're truly your friends. And, chances are, they've been in your shoes, like when they were in law school, before they passed the bar exam and became a legit lawyer. They get it. Or will. But right now, they've forgotten about their pre-lawyer days. So, oftentimes, they probably don't know that shelling out $50 for your $10 salad is really messing with your budget and finances. That's a week's worth of groceries from Trader Joe's, you may be thinking. And you don't want to eat ramen all week, damnit! (Nothing against ramen, of course!) Or you can put that remaining $40 in your savings account! But they don't know that.

The solution? Speak up! "If your friends don't know what your financial issues are, they won't understand why you feel uncomfortable spending more money," Germano says. "Instead of phrasing things as you 'not being able to afford it,' frame it as part of your broader financial goals."

Yes, like it or not, you and your friends probably budget differently. I ~love~ Suze Orman, and she has great financial advice on her blog about spending and how to split bills. For instance, let's say you and your significant other move in together and the total rent is $2,000. Many people assume they should split that rent 50/50. However, Orman believes the rent should be based on percentages, depending on what each person makes. I agree. When you think about it, it makes perfect sense.

On her blog, Orman gives an example of household expenses being $3,000. If one person makes $7,000 a month and the other makes $3,000, she suggests a 70/30 split. Not 50/50. So, if you translate this to a group dinner, I know the bill won't be divided up based on percentages — hello, awkward! — but you can insist ~in advance~ on everyone paying only for what they eat and drink. In addition, as suggested above, you can privately tell the organizer you cannot afford to split the bill evenly and would appreciate if everyone pays their own way. Again, I feel any empathetic friend will get this — they've probably been in your situation before, but didn't say anything! You can also confide in another friend and both of you can approach the dinner organizer, so to speak. Power in numbers, right?

"Remember that it's brave to take steps to improve your financial situation," Germano says. "Good friends will understand and support you. Plus, maybe talking about it openly will inspire your friends to do the same for themselves."

Maybe one person in your friend group always tends to pick where you'll go eat. But why don't you think of some cheaper alternatives? Plus, happy hour should really be your BFF. If you think happy hours are only in the late afternoon, think again. Many places now have late-night happy hours, even until midnight or closing time, if you look around enough. And, chances are, other friends of yours will appreciate the cheaper meals and drinks, too. "If someone chooses an expensive restaurant for dinner, tell them that you're on a tight budget for the month, so you'd prefer to go somewhere more affordable," says Germano. "Be proactive and have those conversations early. Rather than being defensive and embarrassed, you can own your current situation."

There is nothing wrong with using an electronic coupon! In fact, I feel people like to boast about getting such-and-such a deal via Groupon or another e-commerce marketplace. For instance, with Gilt City, you can find deals on everything from restaurants to wine tastings. With Restaurant.com, you'll get great bargains at great places. And, once again, if you and your friends all get the same deal, you all save, so it's a win-win for everybody. Some of the coupons and deals are also two-for-one, so that's an added bonus, as well.

I love this idea and am going to start using it STAT. "One way around getting stuck paying more than what you actually spent is to carry cash when you're going out," says Germano. "If you set yourself a spending limit for the evening and only bring that much with you, you can't actually overspend. Pay attention to how much your order costs, and pitch in that amount (including tax and tip, of course) in cash when the bill comes."

Of course, in advance, you may want to make sure there's no equal-group-splitting going on. Then again, maybe those in favor of equal group splitting will learn their lesson once you shell out the only cash you have. Hmm.

Yes, if you remove alcohol from the equation, your going-out-to-dinner bill will be much lower. So, if you find a BYOB for you and your friends to go to, a big bill expense will already be removed. Plus, it'll be fun to see what different kinds of wine everyone brings, right?

You probably know that cooking at home saves ~a ton~ of money. And, it's fun! Instead of weekly dinners out with your friends, you can start having revolving dinner parties. You can host this week, another friend can host next week. Or, perhaps one friend has the biggest house and has volunteered to host every week. You can also have themes: Indian food this time, Korean the next, and you can have everyone make a different dish. Plus, with dinner parties, there will be no awkward bill-splitting!

Having a picnic or group potluck is along the same lines as having a dinner party, but different. Now that the weather's getting warmer in much of the country, it's a perfect time for a picnic. Just move your "dinner party" outside and you're all set!

As you can see, it is completely fine to be the frugal friend. There are plenty of ways to still have fun with your friends while saving money in the process, too. And, with the latter, you can save up for many different things, from a European vacation to your future retirement fund. And no one can blame you for that!

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