As the matriarch of the zodiac, Cancers just want to support their loved ones. But like many nurturers, they don’t always receive the same energy in return. When that happens, people like Cancers may start to feel like they “do not matter and their needs are not important,” as Claudia Sigala, L.C.S.W., a psychotherapist with the mental health provider Alma, previously explained to Bustle. No friendship should make a person feel this way, but unfortunately, that’s a lesson that crabs have to learn the hard way.

Represented by the scales of justice, Libras seek peace and balance in every aspect of their lives. If an issue with a friend arises, they’ll take responsibility every time, even if they’re not the one who’s in the wrong. If you’re dealing with a manipulative person, though, they might take notice of this pattern and start faulting you for their shortcomings before you can blame yourself.

"One sign of an unhealthy friendship is when you are always taking the fall for your friend," Samantha Daniels, a professional matchmaker and the founder of The Dating Lounge dating app, previously told Bustle. "If your friend does something wrong, [they] should take the blame and be accountable for [their] actions." Libras have a hard time accepting this fact, but once they do their relationships will prove to be a lot more meaningful.

As the humanitarians of the zodiac, Aquarians want to be pals with everybody. But sometimes, people take advantage of their eagerness to make friends and use that as an excuse to walk all over them and make them feel small.

Water bearers are also known for their eccentric personalities, but their light may be dulled whenever they’re around a person who isn’t a true friend. Sigala previously told Bustle that this kind of behavior might prompt someone to “[hold] back and [share] less” than they normally would, and maybe even decrease their self-esteem, too. If they’re a true friend, they’ll love you for who you are, dear Aqua.