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11 Toys Every Grown-Ass Woman Will Love

by Amber Petty

Orgasms are great, right? That's a pretty obvious statement, but it's nice to take a moment to thank our bodies for being able to give us such pleasure. As a grown-ass woman, you deserve to give yourself the gift of getting off whenever you like. Thankfully, there are some great sex toys for women that can enhance your solo play or sexy time with a partner.

If you’re new to toys or are still a little unsure about what to buy, the internet makes everything easier. Now, you can browse through a range of anal toys, light bondage kits, or classic massagers whenever your heart desires. Buy yourself a giant dildo or a pocket-sized clit vibe whenever you want. You’re a grown-ass woman, and you deserve to have any sex toy that makes you feel good.

Truthfully, part of being a grown-ass woman is knowing and loving yourself — and if you want to, comfortably exploring your sexual preferences with or without a partner can be an important part of getting to know yourself. Whether you prefer vibrators, anal play, or dildos, it doesn't matter. Do what feels good to you. It's great to get off — and these products could help take that already wonderful experience to the next level.

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An Adjustable And Inflatable Anal Plug

Trinity Vibes Vibrating Inflatable Anal Plug, $26, Amazon

This inflatable anal plug inflates and deflates to whatever size you want, so you can really experiment with what your butt likes the most. Plus, it vibrates, so that always makes things more fun.

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2. A Mini Vibrator With Lots Of Options

CalExotics Dr. Laura Berman Athena Mini Massager, $6, Amazon

This mini vibrator was made by a doctor, so it must be pretty good. Though the vibe is pretty tiny, it packs a punch. If you're looking for clitoral stimulation, the vibe comes with four tips with radically different textures so you can experiment with what you like most. It's inexpensive and discrete, so it's a great choice if you're new to the world of toys.

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A Pillow That Puts You In All Sorts Of New Positions

Liberator Jaz Sex Positioning Pillow, $55, Amazon

There are only so many sex positions you can do without some support — and if you're looking for new ways to comfortably change angles, try this sex pillow. "Sex pillow" sounds like a high school ska band, but it's really amazing. You're able to find all new positions to try while the pillow supports your body and feels soft to the skin. The lining is waterproof, keeping the foam inside clean. To wash, just pop the outer cover into the laundry.

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A Rotating Vibrator That Hits All The Right Places

LELO Ida Remote-Controlled Rotating Vibrator, $149, Amazon

This toy hits all the spots, and offers vibrating clitoral and G-spot stimulation. But to take it up a notch, it also rotates, giving a whole new world of sensations. It's rechargeable, remote-controlled, and 100 percent waterproof. It's great for couples or for solo play, too.

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Try Out Some Festive Nipple Clamps

KANKANWO Sensual Sex Chain Nipple Clamps, $11, Amazon

Have you ever wanted nipple clamps that could double as a Christmas garland? Well, here's the toy for you! The stainless steel chain has lots of hanging balls to create different sensations on your skin. The adjustable clamps are made from non-toxic latex and you can keep them as tight or as loose as you want.

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A Classic, Best-Selling Vibrator With 10 Speeds

UTIMI Silicone 10 Speed Vibrator, $20, Amazon

If you want a standard, reliable vibrator, this one is a great choice. You get 10 speeds of clitoral and G-spot stimulation, plus a soft, silicone wand for penetration. Amazon sells a lot of sex toys and this is the best-selling vibrator for the whole site.

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A Quiet Vibe With A Lot Of Power

IMO Vibrating G-spot Rabbit Massager, $37, Amazon

It looks like a nouveau design for the 2070 Olympic torch, but it's really a high powered vibrator. Designed for clitoral or G-spot stimulation, it has seven vibrating modes that all stay whisper quiet — plus all of them light up in different colors so you can figure it out in the dark. Rechargeable via USB, you can have up to two hours of fun on a single charge.

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A Super Soft Vibrator With A Crazy Good Texture

IntiMate Silicone Vibrating Ring, $30, Amazon

Make sure you don't mix up this vibrating cock ring with your silicone facial cleanser. They look alike, but are two very different things. This ring is made of body-safe, super soft silicone. The raised texture gives this a completely different sensation than other vibes. If you prefer a small, clitoral toy, definitely give this one a try.

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This Rose Gold Suction Toy That Uses Air

Satisfyer Pro 2, $47, Amazon

Usually if someone does the "I'm not touching you" thing, it's super annoying. But when this toy does it, it's magic. The Satisfyer uses pressure waves to stimulate you without ever touching your skin. If you're very sensitive, this is a perfect toy. Also, if you enjoy a sucking sensation, this is one of the few toys that mimics that perfectly. Plus, it's rose gold, so it's very on trend.

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A Lube You Can Proudly Display On Your Nightstand

Isabel Fay Natural Personal Lubricant For Sensitive Skin, $14, Amazon

From afar, this bottle looks like it must hold some classy, artisanal body lotion. But look closely — it's lube! This natural, water-based lubricant is made for sensitive skin and is very safe to use during sex or with a toy. There are no colors or odors, and it won't leave stains anywhere. And how many lubes will enhance your bedroom decor? Only this one.

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Everything You Need To Experiment With Light Bondage

Inspiration Industry Bondage Kit, $21, Amazon

If you're curious about bondage, why not give it a try? This kit gives you all the tools to use on your own or with someone else. With restraints, handcuffs, a gag, a flogger, an eye mask, and adjustable cuffs, you get all your bondage basics for a little over $20. The handcuffs and eye mask are padded and soft, while the restraints are sturdy and made to last.

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