It's A Pleasure

It's A Pleasure

Is It A Bad Idea To Lose My Virginity To An Old Crush?

I want to get my first time over with, but I don’t fully trust him.

By Sophia Benoit
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My Ex Wants To Get Back Together. Do I Need To Tell Him I Cheated?

Our relationship was losing its spark and I accidentally slept with my previous ex.

By Sophia Benoit
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My Partner Wants Me To Wear A Diaper During Sex. Help!

Am I being too sensitive about his request?

By Sophia Benoit
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Help! I Haven't Had Sex With My Partner For 3 Years. He Blames Porn.

I’m fine with my vibrator, but this can’t be healthy, right?

By Sophia Benoit
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I'm Sober & Afraid I'll Never Have A "Normal" Dating Life Again

It doesn't help that I'm attracted to "life of the party" ex-frat guys.

By Sophia Benoit
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Is It A Bad Idea To Move Closer To The Crush Who Doesn't Return My Feelings?

Part of me still hopes we’ll become more than friends.

By Sophia Benoit
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My Husband Can't Stay Hard & It's Killing Our Sex Life

Advice columnist Sophia Benoit addresses a question from a reader.

By Sophia Benoit
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Do I Have To Tell My Crush That I Slept With Her Ex?

And he has no idea that I’m courting his ex-girlfriend.

By Sophia Benoit
Relationships

I Love My Best Friend; We Hook Up, But He Doesn't Love Me Back

Worst of all, he just started dating someone else.

By Sophia Benoit
Relationships

How Long Should I Wait For My Married Boyfriend To Leave His Wife?

You are giving up everything for a man who won’t risk anything for you.

By Sophia Benoit
Sex

Help! My Boyfriend Won't Tell Me Why He Stopped Going Down On Me

Is it because I sometimes squirt during sex or pee when I sneeze?

By Sophia Benoit
Dating

I’m 33, Single, & Worried I’ll Never Find Love — Help!

Trust that romance will come your way.

By Sophia Benoit
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Help! I'm Not Getting Any Attention On Dating Apps. What Can I Do?

Accept that you can’t do it all.

By Sophia Benoit
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Help! I Love My Boyfriend, But I’m Struggling To See A Future With Him

You’re not evil for having needs in a relationship that your partner cannot meet.

By Sophia Benoit
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I'm Insecure About My Partner's Past Relationships. How Can I Get Over It?

OK, so you get envious sometimes — so what!

By Sophia Benoit
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How Do You Know When It's Time To End A Relationship?

Commitment from someone you don’t actually fit with will never make you feel full.

By Sophia Benoit