You know the script. You meet someone great, you go out, and at some point, the two of you become exclusive. But lately, a growing number of people are asking: What if there's a better way? Ethical non-monogamy is far from new, but it's finally stepping out of its dark bedroom; a 2024 study by the dating app Match found that 31% of singles have experimented with some form of it.

For some, it's a chance to build a life that feels vibrant, not restrictive, and it can offer a dusty relationship a much-needed energy shot. For others, it's either a headache or a messy recipe for jealousy. Either way, ENM is undeniably part of the dating landscape now. That's why Bustle is dubbing this week Open Season — a chance to explore what happens when love expands beyond the default settings. In the spirit of "the more, the merrier," we'll be publishing additional stories in the coming days. Ready to explore?

— Bustle editors

From ENM To Enigma

The 8 Kinds Of Open Guys You Find On Dating Apps

From old-school slippery to monogam-ish to full-on harem leader, you’ll recognize every one of ’em.

By Lizzie Logan
Stronger Together

My Girlfriend & I Broke Up. Thank God I Have My Husband.

In polyamory, heartbreak doesn’t mean grieving alone.

By Hayley Folk
Three's A Crowd

I Believed In Non-Monogamy. My Body Didn’t.

As much as I wanted to be cool and unbothered, my girlfriend's new crush made me panic.

By Talia Saville

As You Wish

10 People Share Their Ultra-Specific Boundaries In Their Open Relationships

Including off-limits restaurants and group chat requirements.

by Sophia Benoit
It's The Thought That Counts

You Can Sleep With Her, But Don't You Dare Shave Your Bikini Line

Three people share the unexpected ways jealousy crept into their non-monogamous relationships.

By Mia Sherin
Friends With Benefits

The Sex Was Good. The Friendship Is Great.

The best part of non-monogamy might be the people you don’t sleep with.

By Abigail Moss