Sophia Benoit
Sophia Benoit is a writer and IBS sufferer who lives in Los Angeles. She has written about sex, relationships, and culture in GQ, The Cut, The Guardian, Allure, Refinery29, and her diary. Her book WELL, THIS IS EXHAUSTING is available now. Follow her on Twitter at @1followernodad for rants about Shrek and Fleetwood Mac.
Fitness
I Tried Kim Kardashian's Favorite Squat Machine For 30 Days
The DB Method promises a full-body workout in just 10 minutes.
It's Hot When
It's Hot When People Call You By Your Last Name
It’s like we’re teammates, but we’re banging.
It's A Pleasure
Is It A Bad Idea To Lose My Virginity To An Old Crush?
I want to get my first time over with, but I don’t fully trust him.
It's A Pleasure
My Ex Wants To Get Back Together. Do I Need To Tell Him I Cheated?
Our relationship was losing its spark and I accidentally slept with my previous ex.
It's A Pleasure
My Partner Wants Me To Wear A Diaper During Sex. Help!
Am I being too sensitive about his request?
It's A Pleasure
Help! I Haven't Had Sex With My Partner For 3 Years. He Blames Porn.
I’m fine with my vibrator, but this can’t be healthy, right?
It's A Pleasure
I'm Sober & Afraid I'll Never Have A "Normal" Dating Life Again
It doesn't help that I'm attracted to "life of the party" ex-frat guys.
Wellness
The Year I Decided To Dress Like Myself
People who hate New Year’s resolutions are ignoring one simple thing: You can pick something fun.
It's A Pleasure
Is It A Bad Idea To Move Closer To The Crush Who Doesn't Return My Feelings?
Part of me still hopes we’ll become more than friends.
It's A Pleasure
My Husband Can't Stay Hard & It's Killing Our Sex Life
Advice columnist Sophia Benoit addresses a question from a reader.
It's A Pleasure
Do I Have To Tell My Crush That I Slept With Her Ex?
And he has no idea that I’m courting his ex-girlfriend.
Relationships
I Love My Best Friend; We Hook Up, But He Doesn't Love Me Back
Worst of all, he just started dating someone else.
Relationships
How Long Should I Wait For My Married Boyfriend To Leave His Wife?
You are giving up everything for a man who won’t risk anything for you.
Sex
Help! My Boyfriend Won't Tell Me Why He Stopped Going Down On Me
Is it because I sometimes squirt during sex or pee when I sneeze?
Dating
I’m 33, Single, & Worried I’ll Never Find Love — Help!
Trust that romance will come your way.
It's A Pleasure
Help! I'm Not Getting Any Attention On Dating Apps. What Can I Do?
Accept that you can’t do it all.
It's A Pleasure
Help! I Love My Boyfriend, But I’m Struggling To See A Future With Him
You’re not evil for having needs in a relationship that your partner cannot meet.
It's A Pleasure
I'm Insecure About My Partner's Past Relationships. How Can I Get Over It?
OK, so you get envious sometimes — so what!
It's A Pleasure
How Do You Know When It's Time To End A Relationship?
Commitment from someone you don’t actually fit with will never make you feel full.
It's A Pleasure
Can I Explore My Bisexuality Without Ruining My Relationship?
The number of Reddit threads on this will surely let you know you’re not alone.
