Sophia Benoit
Sophia Benoit is a writer and IBS sufferer who lives in Los Angeles. She has written about sex, relationships, and culture in GQ, The Cut, The Guardian, Allure, Refinery29, and her diary. Her book WELL, THIS IS EXHAUSTING is available now. Follow her on Twitter at @1followernodad for rants about Shrek and Fleetwood Mac.
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My Husband Can't Stay Hard & It's Killing Our Sex Life
Advice columnist Sophia Benoit addresses a question from a reader.
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Do I Have To Tell My Crush That I Slept With Her Ex?
And he has no idea that I’m courting his ex-girlfriend.
Relationships
I Love My Best Friend; We Hook Up, But He Doesn't Love Me Back
Worst of all, he just started dating someone else.
Relationships
How Long Should I Wait For My Married Boyfriend To Leave His Wife?
You are giving up everything for a man who won’t risk anything for you.
Sex
Help! My Boyfriend Won't Tell Me Why He Stopped Going Down On Me
Is it because I sometimes squirt during sex or pee when I sneeze?
Dating
I’m 33, Single, & Worried I’ll Never Find Love — Help!
Trust that romance will come your way.
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Help! I'm Not Getting Any Attention On Dating Apps. What Can I Do?
Accept that you can’t do it all.
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Help! I Love My Boyfriend, But I’m Struggling To See A Future With Him
You’re not evil for having needs in a relationship that your partner cannot meet.
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I'm Insecure About My Partner's Past Relationships. How Can I Get Over It?
OK, so you get envious sometimes — so what!
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How Do You Know When It's Time To End A Relationship?
Commitment from someone you don’t actually fit with will never make you feel full.
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Can I Explore My Bisexuality Without Ruining My Relationship?
The number of Reddit threads on this will surely let you know you’re not alone.
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Is It Bad That I'm Not Interested In Sex Or Dating Right Now?
Not doing something you don’t want to do isn’t missing out.
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How Do I Deal With Both ED & Premature Ejaculation?
It’s just plain annoying when your body doesn’t work the way you want it to.
Books
We’ve All Had Bad Sex. Nona Willis Aronowitz Is Talking About It.
Willis Aronowitz’s new book, Bad Sex, reckons with the gap between our ideologies and our desires.
Horny On Main
Kim K Really Wants You To Know She's Having Sex
After divorcing Kanye West, Kim Kardashian has transformed from a sex object into a sexual being.
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Help! I’m Still Stuck On My Narcissistic Ex!
Time does a lot of the work for you.
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I Want To See My Long-Distance Partner More Often. Am I Being Needy?
The key to expectations is communicating them to your partner.
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Is It Worth It To Stay Together Before My Partner Moves Away?
There’s no way out of this without heartbreak.
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Help! My Partner Won’t Stop Talking To His Ex
In a healthy relationship, you don’t have to ask the other person to be good.
