Griffin Wynne
Griffin Wynne is a sex and relationships writer at Bustle. Their work centers on all the things you’re “not supposed” to talk about like double texting, OnlyFans, and D-List celebrities’ love lives. They primarily cover sexual health and wellness, gender and sexuality, and internet sex and dating culture, with a focus on sex worker liberation, sex positivity, and reproductive justice. In addition to Bustle, their sex and relationships work has appeared in Cosmopolitan, SELF, Teen Vogue, Elite Daily, Crybaby Zine, and Xtra Magazine. While they’re critical and cautious of the “DIY scene,” Griffin got their start in zines, music journalism, and self-publishing covering queer punk bands and sad people making music in their bedrooms. Their music writing can be found in Razorcake Magazine, She Shreds, and Slumber Mag. Griffin graduated from Occidental College in 2017 with a double major in Religious Studies and Cognitive Science. When they’re not studying the sociological roots of current TikTok trends, Griffin can be found camping, drinking plain seltzer, crying to Liz Phair, working in harm reduction, or going to Goodwill. They’re a Capricorn King, a genderless cowboy, a non-binary bro, and a '70s daddy who is always down for dollar oysters, bonfires, mutual aid, and donating to local abortion funds. Griffin uses they/them pronouns and has the same birthday as Kyle Richards. Feel free to send them your favorite Dixie Chicks song or just to say hi! griffinwynne@gmail.com
Dating
30 Clever Ways To Slide Into Your Crush's DMs
“I'm jealous of your cooking skills."
Relationships
35 Sexy Texts To Send Your Partner
When you’re looking to keep things frisky but not risqué.
Tech
22 Texts To Send When You Think You're About To Get Ghosted
From jumping the conversation to a respectful rejection.
Relationships
36 Perfect Texts To Send Your Ex, No Matter The Situation
Including when you need them to stop using your Netflix account.
Relationships
16 Expert-Approved Responses To Rejection Texts
"Thanks for letting me know where we stand."
Relationships
21 Non-Awkward Texts To Send A First Date You Don't Want To See Again
“Nothing good can come of a long text explaining what about them did not work for you.”
Sex & Relationships
14 Romantic Valentine's Day Dates You Can Do Over Zoom
Don’t let distance get in the way.
Sex
12 Sexy Valentine’s Day Ideas That Totally Beat An Overpriced Dinner
From sex toy shopping sprees to blindfolded taste tests.
Relationships
13 Texts To Send Someone Having A Bad Day
“Postmating Thai food to you now.”
Sex & Relationships
28 Witty Responses To Ghosting That’ll Haunt Them Forever
"I ask for your birth chart one time."
Sex & Relationships
12 Texts To Send Someone Who Ghosted You
“I can't read your mind and I don’t want to assume anything.”
Relationships
45 Holiday Dating App Conversation Starters Sure To Jingle Their Bells
We matched in the (St.) Nick of time.
Wellness
How Couples Are Dealing With Separation Anxiety As They Go Back To Work
“I know I sound crazy, but it feels dreadful being away from him now.”
Relationships
Most Relationships End. That Doesn’t Mean They Were A Failure.
The “goal” of love can just be having a nice time.
Sex
The Beginner’s Guide To Rabbit Vibrators
This SATC-famous toy is here for a good and long time.
Sex
How To Use A Sex Pillow To Make Every Position Even Hotter
They're a great add for solo sessions, too.
Relationships
75 Dating App Opening Lines Guaranteed To Make Your Matches Laugh
“We can say we met on Spotify because you're the hottest new single.”
Sex and Relationships
Kourtney Kardashian Is The Ultimate Relationship Chameleon
Taking on your partner's hobbies and interests is healthy — to an extent.
Sex & Relationships
24 Supportive Texts To Send Someone Struggling With Burnout
"Is there anything I can do to support you?"
Ask Gen Z
Gen Z Tells Us How To Avoid Becoming A Dating App Pen Pal
“Switch immediately to a plan.”
