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June 1, 2026

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May 2026

So You Want To Be A Reality Star!

A meticulous guide to the unscripted life — featuring practical wisdom and career advice from your favorite TV personalities and behind-the-scenes experts.

From The Editors

More than a quarter-century into the modern era of reality television, the stakes are as clear as the plastic wrapping on Kim Richards’ bunny. Surrender your life to the cameras, and you might end up a millionaire... or get memed into oblivion. You might find your one true love, or get your heart broken in front of the entire country. You could end up America’s sweetheart — or the embodiment of villainy, unable to stroll the grocery store or walk into a bar without a stranger telling you how much they hated you. And in our current social media landscape — or at least the near-daily drip of Love Island episodes that feverishly consume us for weeks every summer — it can all change in a blink.

And yet! Despite the mounting on-screen evidence that reality TV is the gamble of all gambles, people keep signing up. The desire to be seen, if not necessarily understood, is irrepressibly human. And if you’ve ever considered braving the process yourself — after all, somebody has to power the seemingly never-ending supply of Netflix dating shows! — this special issue is for you.

Over the years, we’ve watched reality stars extend their 15 minutes of fame into decades of television work and build entire empires on little more than charisma and a catchphrase. Reality TV, we know now, isn’t just a springboard for other opportunities — it’s a job that takes work and savvy like (almost) any other. So come at us like Andy Cohen on a three-part reunion, because we’ve got answers for all your burning questions about how to succeed, from the audition stage to worrying about your edit. We’ll get technical (if you don’t know the difference between “hard ice” and “soft ice,” we got you). We’ll get practical (about how, exactly, you can monetize your fame once filming wraps). We’ve also recruited an all-star cast of reality pros, producers, and casting directors to share their hard-earned wisdom. So come on into the Bustle villa: The pool water’s nice, some bombshell opportunities are knocking, and the cameras are already rolling.

Something About Her

My Life In The Reality TV Wringer

Ariana Madix moved to Hollywood to upgrade her acting career. Then Vanderpump Rules happened. Now, in her own words, the host of Love Island USA unpacks the pros and cons of exposing her life on camera — and whether it was all worth it.

by Ariana Madix

I. Before You Film

Game On

How To (Actually) Get Cast On Reality TV Now

The days of sending in a tape and hoping for the best are long gone. Now, thanks to social media, scouting season never ends. By Amy Kaufman

By Amy Kaufman
Tribal Counsel

How To Get A Leg Up With A Reality TV Coach

Can teaming up with an expert — from a Survivor winner to a Bachelor code-breaker — improve your chances of getting on TV? By Gabe Bergado

By Gabe Bergado
IMDb Pros

How To Build A Reality TV Résumé

Hopping from franchise to franchise is no longer considered unusual (or thirsty) — in fact, it just might make you a gift to casting directors. By Jessica Roy

By Jessica Roy

With the knowledge that you’re signing your life away. “You absolve the production company and everybody connected to it from anything that happens to you, whether they kill you or you kill yourself,” says entertainment lawyer Paul Menes. “You become a total captive of the show.” If you want a shot at fame, you’ll just have to accept. But with a few years of all-star status, plus a good lawyer, you might be able to negotiate a sweeter deal for later TV endeavors. (Read more)

While shows vary, Loni Fagel (MA, MEd, LPCC) says evaluators may ask how you handle conflict, stress, surprise, and jealousy. “Think of it like scenarios they might ask on a job interview,” she says. They may cover trauma, substance abuse, and other topics in that vein, but the evaluation isn’t about weeding out, say, everyone who’s ever had anxiety or depression. “The diagnosis should not matter as much as: Has this person had treatment? Are they on medication? Do they have support?” (Read more)

Before filming, leave a few weeks for Botox and filler to fully settle. If you have two months, liposuction around the face and neck or a breast augmentation could be the move, according to Dr. Sean Doherty (M.D.). A little longer, and you could get a blepharoplasty or body liposuction, which take around three months to fully recover from. Six months, and you could go for a tummy tuck, rhinoplasty, or abdominal contouring, according to Dr. Rian Maercks (M.D.). (Read more)

This season just’s getting started. Tune in all week for more behind-the-scenes peeks and interviews with iconic reality stars.