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April 2025
You deserve to come.
We’ll let you in on a little secret, Bustle readers. We love you, we care about you, and we want you to feel your best. Not just good, not just fine, but flushed, shaking, and blissfully weak in the knees. Enter: Our third annual Sexual Wellness Awards, aka the Oscars of pleasure.
We asked a panel of 11 sexperts — e.g., therapists, educators, sexologists, and the founder of an NSFW boutique — to share their top recommendations for sex toys across a range of categories, and they delivered. Picks include a classic vibrator that deserves a spot in the Erotic Hall of Fame, a buzzing strap-on, double-ended steel, pleasure oil, sex gummies, and so much more.
Life is short. Don’t you deserve to enjoy yourself?
— Bustle editors
These Expert-Approved Sex Toys Will Stimulate Your Clit Like Never Before
One of them is known as the “Beyoncé of sex toys.”
The Best Dual-Stimulation Sex Toys For Double The Fun
Think internal and external vibrations.
From Basic To Luxurious, Here Are The Best Lubes You Can Buy
Because you should take them as seriously as your skin care routine.
Wanna Go Around Back? Try These Toys & Training Kits
Plus, how to have the smoothest time.
Stay A While...
Thirty, Flirty, & F*cking
Bustle asked 274 women and nonbinary people ages 30-39 about their sex lives, and they held nothing back.
4 Ways To Increase Your Sex Drive When You’re Feeling Stressed
"Keep the kettle at a low boil."
In 'It's Not Hysteria,' Dr. Karen Tang Translates Her TikTok Ethos To The Page
The gynecologist’s 600,000-plus followers expect no-nonsense facts about women’s health.
Lo Bosworth, Vagina Mogul
The Love Wellness founder — and fan favorite of The Hills — found her voice taking on embarrassing women's health issues. "Eventually your narrative changes," she says. "Especially if you're authentic."
Is My Intense Skin Care Routine Ruining My Sex Life?
“My boyfriend is like, ‘You look like you’re out of a scene of a scary movie.’”
Karla Welch Wants That Time Of The Month To Be Easier For Everyone. Period.
“When people who period thrive, the world thrives.”
Don’t You Miss Talking To Your Friends About Sex?
Let it fade, and you lose more than just juicy stories.
Stacy London Turned Her Mid-Life Crisis Into A Metamorphosis
In love with a woman. Hosting a menopause retreat. Dressing like Tar. The TV makeover queen-turned-women’s health advocate has experienced the ultimate transformation.
The Simple Reason Why Egg Freezing Is All Over Your Instagram
Influencers like Serena Kerrigan are documenting the process in live time.
Even Walmart Sells Sex Now
Sexual wellness is front of mind, even as the country slides backwards.
5 Facts About Your Vagina That'll Change The Way You Think About Sex
The G-spot isn't what you think it is.
If You Have Difficulty With Orgasms, This Simple Exercise Might Help
Kegels can increase libido and help you "optimize" your orgasms.
I Had Sex With The Lights On For A Month & It Changed My Whole Perspective
“I let him see me, in more ways than one.”