Lexi Inks

Lexi (she/her) is a lifestyle journalist based in Jacksonville, Florida.

She has reported on countless topics, including sexual wellness, astrology, relationship issues, non-monogamy, mental health, pop culture, and more. In addition to Bustle, her work has been published on Cosmopolitan, Refinery29, Well + Good, Byrdie, Women’s Health, Popsugar, and others. As a queer and plus-size woman living with mental illness, Lexi strives for intersectionality and representation in all of her writing.

She holds a BFA in Musical Theatre from Jacksonville University, which she has chosen to make everyone’s problem. A self-proclaimed “hot mess with a big heart”, Lexi is a Libra sun, Capricorn moon, and Sagittarius rising. When she’s not hunched over her laptop, you can probably find her drinking an ungodly amount of Diet Coke, oversharing on social media, draining her limited social battery, or being codependent with her rescue dog, Remi. You can follow her on Instagram and Twitter @lexiinks.

Self

5 Signs You Have A Toxic Relationship With Yourself

Plus what you can do to deal.

By Lexi Inks

Relationships

Why Being “Too Sensitive” In Relationships Is A Good Thing

It’s often advantageous to be vulnerable and feel things deeply.

By Lexi Inks

Sex & Relationships

18 Hinge Prompt Answers To Try If You’re Looking For Something Casual

“Go with witty and sarcastic but also the truth,” says a relationship expert.

By Lexi Inks

Relationships

12 Active Date Ideas That'll Get You & Your Boo Outside

For when you're bored with movie night.

By Lexi Inks

Sex

TikTok's Voluntary Celibacy Trend Has Sparked A Movement

The lowdown on why people are waiting longer to have sex.

By Lexi Inks

Relationships

10 Texts That'll Help You Reconnect With An Ex-Best Friend

Letting them know you've been thinking about them could break the ice.

By Lexi Inks

Relationships

12 Creative Double Date Ideas To Try With Your Fave Couples

Expert-approved ways to up the ante from the usual dinner with friends.

By Lexi Inks

Relationships

How To Manage New Relationship Energy In A Polyamorous Relationship

Don't let the honeymoon phase negatively impact your existing partners.

By Lexi Inks

Dating

28 Hinge Prompt Answers To Try If You Want A Serious Relationship

Manifest that LTR.

By Lexi Inks

Sex

Should You Sleep With Someone To Get Over Your Ex? Experts Weigh In

Here's what to consider before a romp in the sheets.

By Lexi Inks

Relationships

12 Cute Winter Date Ideas, Straight From Relationship Experts

Even if it's cold outside, these activities are sure to warm your heart.

By Lexi Inks

Relationships

Your Guide To Befriending Someone On Instagram

Forget what your mom said about meeting strangers online.

By Lexi Inks

Relationships

Should You Date Someone Who Just Got Out Of A Relationship?

Make sure they're not seeking revenge on their ex, for one.

By Lexi Inks

Relationships

Are Two People With A Physical Touch Love Language A Good Match?

“There is a natural ebb and flow in this unsaid communication that is comforting and connecting."

By Lexi Inks

Relationships

10 Underrated Relationship Tips That Can Benefit Every Couple

Because hearing “communication is key” can only help so much.

By Lexi Inks

Relationships

"Winter Coating" Is The Dating Trend No One Asked For

Here’s how to avoid being tossed aside like an outgrown puffer jacket.

By Lexi Inks

Dating

10 Cute Holiday Date Ideas To Try With Your Boo

Turn your life into a Hallmark movie.

By Lexi Inks

Sex

6 Chair Sex Positions That Just Might Blow Your Mind

Give your furniture a whole new purpose.

By Lexi Inks

Extremely Online

The "Dating Wrapped" Movement On TikTok Will Entertain You For Hours

You weren't the only one who got ghosted/catfished/the ick.

By Lexi Inks

Relationships

A Guide To Dating When Polyamorous

“Approaching it with curiosity can really transform the experience into a journey of self-discovery and growth.”

By Lexi Inks